| Author: Myra Golden |
1. Apologize. An apology makes the angry customer feel heard and understood. It diffuses and anger and allows you to begin to re-establish trust. Not only that, but pilot studies have found that the mere act of apologizing has reduced lawsuits, settlement, and defense costs. You need to apologize to customers regardless of fault. Certainly, the apology needs to be carefully worded. Here's an example of a sincere, yet careful apology:
'Please accept my sincere and unreserved apology for any inconvenience this may have caused you.'
2. Kill Them Softly With Diplomacy. This simple phrase has never failed me: 'Clearly, we've upset you and I want you to know that getting to the bottom of this is just as important to me as it is to you.' When you say this, anger begins to dissipate. You've addressed the anger directly and non defensively and you haven't been pulled into the drama of the attack.
3. Go into Computer Mode. To use Computer Mode you take on the formalities of a computer. You speak generally, without emotion, and you don't take the bait your angry or difficult customer is throwing you. Your words, tone, and attitude are completely impersonal and neutral - (Think of the automated response system you speak to when you call your wireless phone company or bank.)
This "computer mode" response deflects, diffuses, and disarms angry customers because you don't add fuel to the fire by giving your difficult customer what they want -an emotional reaction. When you don't take the bait, the difficult customer is forced to stop dead in their tracks. And that means you regain control (and confidence).
The Computer Mode Approach In Action
Let's say your customer says:
"You don't give a d*** about customers. Once you get a customer locked into a contract, the service aspect is over."
While it may be tempting to fuel the fire with an equally hostile response such as "What's your problem, creep?" don't take the bait. If you do take the bait, the situation will only escalate and nothing productive or positive will result. A computer mode response might look like this:
"I'm sure there are some people who think we don't care about servicing customers."
"People get irritated when they don't immediately get the help they need."
"It's very annoying to experience a delay in service response."
"Nothing is more distressing than feeling like you're being passed around when all you want is help."
And then you stop -like a locked up computer.
No matter how uncomfortable the verbal abuse is or how ridiculous it becomes, continue to respond without emotion. This tactic works because it is neutral, doesn't take the bait, and because it is unexpected. The difficult customer wants to throw you off, make you lose control, and to get you to respond emotionally. When you fail to do each of these things, you actually regain control.
Go into "computer mode" the next time you're faced with verbal abuse from an irate or unreasonable customer, and I promise you, you'll quickly regain control ---and you'll have fun with the process.
4. Give this question a shot: 'Have I done something personally to upset you?... I'd like to be a part of the solution.' Of course, you know you haven't done anything to upset the customer. You ask this question to force the angry customer to think about his behavior. Often, the mere asking of this question is enough to get the ballistic customer to begin to shift from the right brain to the left brain, where he can begin to listen and rationalize.
5. Show empathy - Empathy can be a powerful tool used to disarm an angry customer and show that you genuinely care about the inconvenience the customer has experienced. Expressing empathy is also good for YOU, as it helps you truly begin to see the problem from the customer's perspective/and this perspective will help keep you from losing your cool when your customer gets hot. By letting customers know that you understand why they are upset, you build a bridge of rapport between you and them.
Here are some phrases that express empathy:
? 'That must have been very frustrating for you.'
? 'I realize the wait you encountered was an inconvenience.'
? 'If I were in your shoes, I'm sure I'd feel just as you do.'
? 'It must have been very frustrating for you have waited five days for your order and for that I am sorry.'
6. And finally, here's a tip that works like magic. '. Show appreciation for the difficult person's feedback. After your difficult customer has ranted and raved, you can regain control of the conversation by interjecting---not interrupting, but interjecting to thank them for taking the time to give you feedback. You can say something like:
? Thanks for being so honest.
? Thanks for taking the time to let us know how you feel.
? We appreciate customers who let us know when things aren't right.
? Thanks for caring so much.
The reason this tip works so effectively is because the last thing your irate or unreasonable customer expects is for you to respond with kindness and gratitude. It's a shock factor and many times you'll find that your customer is stunned silent and this is exactly what you want. When the customer is stunned into silence, you get in the driver's seat and steer the conversation in the direction you want it to go.
When you do these things you'll find that being on the receiving end of verbal abuse doesn't have to be threatening or intimidating. You can come across as confident, composed and strong'and most importantly, you'll regain control of the conversation. |
Author Bio:
Myra Golden is an award-winning professional speaker and principal of Myra Golden Seminars, LLC, a customer service training firm serving clients in food and beverage, banking, healthcare, hospitality, and other industries. Her client list includes McDonald��s, Johnson & Johnson, Coca-Cola, Frito-Lay, Michelin Tires, Pirelli, and Procter & Gamble, among many others. For hundreds of ideas for customer service improvement for use in customer service training, visit the customer service training resource portal by going to www.totalcustomerservicetraining.com |
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