Well, you should be. That statistics arent in your favour! The biggest drop in available single males happens is in our 30s.

I know thats not really what you wanted to hear, but who am I to lie to you?

Keep reading though - this article isnt all doom and gloom. In it I want to tell you 3 things:

1. Why you havent found your Mr. Rightyet
2. The answer to that question lurking in your subconscious will I ever find him?
3. Let you know clearly what you must do if youre committed to finding him.

Are you committed? Because if you arent, dont even bother reading the rest of this. Dont waste your time. Why? Because learning what to do to find your Mr. Right is relatively easy. The difficult bit is committing and taking the action required to find him.

Still reading? Good. Then lets start with point number 1 why havent you found him?

Why Havent You Found Your Mr. Right?

There are lots of potential reasons. Let me list a few for you and see if they ring any bells. Youre:

Not dating enough
Giving out the wrong signals
Scaring men off
Spending a lot of time in the wrong relationships
Consistently going out with men that are wrong for you
Not prioritising enough time to finding a relationship over your career
Struggling to find any decent men any more

The list goes on, so if you havent seen the main issue youre facing, dont worry. The key point is, the reason you havent found your Mr. Right is because of you. It isnt because all the decent men have been taken. It isnt because all men are pigs. It isnt because .

As long as you keep justifying why you havent found your Mr. Right youre just perpetuating the problem. If you dont acknowledge that there is an issue, then you may never find your man.

Yes, Im being cruel to be kind here. But if you dont take the first step and acknowledge that something needs to change (even if you dont know what that is yet) then your chances of finding him in the next 10 years are just the same as they were in the last 10. And you know the results of that already.

Is It Still Possible To Find Your Mr. Right?

Yes.

It is still possible. And Ill tell you what you must do if youre committed to finding him in a few moments time.

But first, you must get back some of that belief in yourself. Its likely that your self esteem has taking a bit of a battering over the years. Why havent I found him? Whats wrong with me? Why cant I find someone to love? If youve been asking yourself those types of questions then youre self esteem will have deflated somewhat. Add to that the fact that you havent found him and you may have begun to believe that youre never going to find him.

The truth is, once youve identified the main beliefs and behaviours that have prevented you from finding him, then you can find him within months.

I know that sounds impossible. Im even considering not putting it in this article. But its true. (I have plenty of client testimonials to prove otherwise so Im not just saying it to make you feel better)

Heres a quick example of how beliefs and behaviours can ruin your chances. If youve always believed you werent as attractive as some women because you didnt get approached by men as often, then that may have led you to date less and less over the years. Thats a problem. Not that youre not attractive. Its your belief that youre not attractive. The biggest reason men approach you (or not) is to do with how you flirt not to do with your physical attractiveness! (Thats proven in a University study that I have the results for.)

Now that may not be your belief or your block. But the message is this. You have a belief or a behaviour similar to this, in some area of your life thats preventing you taking the action necessary to find your man. Find out what it is, eliminate it and you open the possibility to find your Mr. Right. Within months. If not, a couple of years at most.

What You Must Do To Find Your Mr. Right

a. Identify the main beliefs or behaviours that have prevented you from finding your partner
b. Make the changes necessary to change or eliminate them
c. Get very clear on who you want to get with
d. Date relentlessly

And thats it.