| Author: Leona Hamel |
| Do take care of your appearance because first impressions last. So, take the time to trim that moustache; wash your hair; and brush your teeth. And do dress for the occasion. Dont wear high-heeled pumps if youre going to a ball game, and jeans if youre going to a fancy restaurant. Dont be late; otherwise, you may be seen as unreliable or disrespectful. Do give your date a quick call or leave a message at the place you are planning to meet if you know youre going to be late. Do be realistic. After all, this is your first date and the two of you are getting to know each other. Dont have any high expectations. Relax and enjoy yourself. Dont go thinking about what happened at the office today, tomorrows appointment, or whether the children are putting up a fuss with the babysitter. Do be in the moment. Do turn your cell phone off or at least put it on vibrate alert. Dont interrupt your date to take call after call unless youre looking to turn off your date. Dont monopolize the conversation. Do listen to your date and show interest in what your date is saying by asking some questions. This is an excellent opportunity for the two of you to learn if you share any similar interests, values, and goals. Do keep to the present. The past is in the past and, surprisingly, the future is unknown. Dont go talking, whining or complaining about your previous relationships. Dont be a lump on the log and take things so seriously. Do show a sense of humor and let your personality shine through. Do pay attention to your body language. Be positive and show confidence. Make eye contact. Dont cross your arms. Dont fidget. Dont forget to smile. Take a deep breath and have fun. You both deserve it. Dont waste your dates time by pretending to be someone you are not. Do be yourself. After all, is this not what you would want from your date? Do practice good manners. For men, this may mean offering to pay, opening doors, and pulling out a chair. We women can offer to pay too. Dont forget your table manners as well. Dont say youll call if you know you wont. Do be honest, but have some compassion. A simple I dont find that were as compatible as I thought, should be enough. If on the other hand, youre interested, do let your date knoweven if it means risking rejection. And if the two of you really hit it off, do be sure to let the other know you had a good time and dont hesitate to call or send a surprise e-mail a few days later to share your sentiments again. |
Author Bio:
Leona Hamel
Romance Agent™ Leona Hamel (a.k.a. LouLou L’Amour, her “sexy persona”) is a fiery, dynamic woman who is passionate about human connection. She is a professional speaker, writer and coach, and works with single and partnered individuals who are ready to live extraordinary relationships and experience more passion, fun and success in their life. Leona delights in having fun with her clients and inspires them to open their hearts and minds to exciting opportunities and renewed possibilities.
An expert in the field of romantic creativity, Leona is the relationship coach for Misty River Introductions, a professional matchmaking service. She (pen name LouLou L’Amour) is also the author of The ABC’s of Tease & Please - A Romance Handbook, and a contributing author to A First Serving of Milk & Cookies for Success.
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