Most of the children love their parents. But it is also true that children love their parents only when parents take care of them properly with love and affection. In case, their requirements are not fulfilled they may start disliking the parents. Parents give birth to their children so they love them whatever the situation or condition may be. But it is not so for the children.

THERE IS A CONDITION

Children want their needs to be fulfilled. When they develop or grow they have certain requirements. If parents are unable to fulfil their requirements of love, money, understanding, and curtail their freedom too much children may develop dissatisfaction. This dissatisfaction may transform to dislike, and then hate. They also want that parents must help them to develop their personality in every possible manner.

INFLUECE OF CIRCUMSTANCES

The second main reason why children start hating parents lies in the circumstances they are influenced with. They are influenced with the circumstance at home as well outside. Sometimes parents have too many tiffs and arguments. It disturbs the children too much. They are surprised at the behaviour of their parents. They are unable to concentrate to studies or any other good activity at home. Another set of circumstance they get in outside world. They may mix up with bad company. Bad friends or people often affect their mind in a negative way and children start disrespecting their parents. They become selfish and uncaring.

SOLUTION

Although the solution to the problem is simple but it takes time. You need a lot of patience to get the attention and love of your children. Give them love, time and understanding. Listen to them properly. Motivate them to leave the company of bad friends or persons. Help them to get busy in study and career making. Provide them all the facilities which can develop their personality in positive way.